u never lived in compton.The place where poplee grew up from makes a huge influence to their attitude.Look at marines or soliders that went to war. They may get desensitized too, but I'm not saying Diaz brothers are desensitized. Let's put it this way, if you grew up in a bad neighbourhood, and you wanted to make friends, well, you got to make some changes to your style if you like it or not. Else, you may get shot.